Posts tagged marriage
Marriage Matters: Intentionally Growing Intimacy

Several years ago, Lora and I wrote a book called The 50 Fridays Marriage Challenge. Our dream for the book was pretty simple: what if couples intentionally invested in growing intimacy in their marriage by having one weekly conversation for a year? It’s so easy to get busy with work, kids, hobbies, extended family and other good things, that we can fail to intentionally invest in each other.

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Why The Enneagram?

Earlier this week I had the opportunity to present an Introduction to the Enneagram workshop at Journey Church in Southern California. Almost one-half of the church showed up with most of them having not been exposed to the Enneagram before that night. As happens every time I present material about the Enneagram, there were so many "aha" moments for people. One person said "it's so strange how this tool knows me better than I know myself!"

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Invest Earlier. Invest Intentionally.

Someone recently asked me why Lora and I host marriage retreats, classes and groups. My immediate answer was, "Because we want to encourage couples to intentionally invest in growing intimate marriages." Later, I thought about my response to my friend's question and, while it was a good and true answer, there's even a deeper reason why we host marriage enrichment events.

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